When I was a young and stupid, 25 or so, I worked the bar scene every day for six months straight. I developed a strategy very similar to the "Mystery" method, which was pretty much 100% effective with a certain type of girl (beautiful women who toyed with and teased men).
But, there were other kinds of girls in the bar, and truth be told the kind of women that the "Mystery" type technique works on, didn’t satisfy me emotionally or physically. Three of the groups I classified women into in those days were: "Love-Girls," "regular women," and "the beautiful teases."
The beautiful Teases gave most guys the most problems, the regular women were the hardest, and the Love Girls were the easiest (if you had technique and some balls) and were the most satisfying emotionally and were the best lovers physically.
These categories and techniques still are valid today and when you perfect them they work almost 100% of the time without fail.
Let me give you three concrete examples of technique you can use to pick up women in clubs. (One in this article, and one more in part two "How To Meet Women In Bars and Clubs", and the third in part three "Do You Want To Know How To Attract Women In Bars and Clubs?")
So, first of all, I developed these techniques by standing around and observing other people. I had just gotten divorced (from a wife who was also my first girl friend) and I was shy and didn’t have much experience with women. I was scared to death of women and stood around for the first month after my new found freedom and did nothing but observe the men and women in the clubs.
Love Girls: One of the things I observed early on was Love Girls. Love Girls were women who came into the bar usually late (about 11 or 12) and basically they were looking for sex. They were great looking, confident women. They always walked in alone (NOT with a girl friend) and they walked slowly and sexily through the club.
They looked every man in their path directly in the eyes, but I observed the typical guy would get shy and embarrassed and would look away. He would then gulp down some alcohol and I could see him trying to build up his courage to go back at her. However, the Love Girls would move on and if no guy did the right thing she would walk through the club and then LEAVE. (She wanted sex and wasn’t going to waste time with a bunch of losers. She would just move on to the next club.)
Every once in awhile, however, I would notice some guy would walk up to one of these Love Girls as she walked buy and simply ask her to dance. "Would you like to dance." Nothing more and nothing less. I then noticed whenever this happened the "Love Girl" would always say "Yes" no matter what the guy looked like and then they would go out on the dance floor and dance for half and hour or so, then they would leave together.
So after a few observations, I tried it. I walked right up to a Love Girl and said "Would you like to dance" she said "Yes" We danced for awhile, definitely in the sex grove, then I asked her if she wanted to go to my place. Again she said "yes." We went to my place and of course had sex.
Not only did it work with the first "Love Girl", but it worked over and over again. All I had to do was SPOT a love girl– by her characteristic walk, dress, attitude, confront, etc. then the rest was easy. Then I got even smarter when I spotted this band one day. There were a dozen or so Love Girls in the audience. But NOW they were REALLY looking for it because they all thought this band was real sexy.
Well this time, I just turned to the girl in back of me who was real hot and sexy, and with out a word I just started kissing her (remember this was the 70’s before AIDS. So, I wouldn’t do and wouldn’t suggest stuff like this now. I am just using it for illustration PURPOSES.)
She kissed me back, and after a few moments of making out , without a word, I took her hand and we went out side to the parking lot, got in my car, and had sex right there, then came back into the club, when we were done. I don’t know and never even asked her, her name.
After that, I made a point of getting this band’s schedule and started following them. Worked Like a charm. A number of years later I also found that if I went to the bars that had the male stripper shows for girls only, right after the show was over, there were always a bunch of Love Girls on the spot no fail.
Well, these were the easy ones.
So stay tuned for part two (<---****HYPERLINK****--->“http://datingtorelating.wordpress.com/how-to-meet-women-in-bars-and-clubs/” target=”_blank”>http://datingtorelating.wordpress.com/how-to-meet-women-in-bars-and-clubs/) and I will tell you how to pick up the "Beautiful Teases" and in part three (<---****HYPERLINK****--->“http://datingtorelating.wordpress.com/do-you-want-to-know-how-to-attract-women-in-bars-and-clubs/” target=”_blank”>http://datingtorelating.wordpress.com/do-you-want-to-know-how-to-attract-women-in-bars-and-clubs/) I will tell you how to pick up the "Regular Girls."
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