As parents, one of the scariest thing you fear for your teenage child is if he/she ends up abusing drugs. Parents feel happy and satisfied when they see their kids flourish and grow into a happy and healthy individual. Unluckily for most families, it’s pretty common when they discover that their child is involved in taking illicit substances. No parent wants that, and if you find yourself in such a situation, here are some things to have in mind:
1. Type of Drugs
Knowing the type of drugs your child is into is the first thing to have in mind. What kind of drug is your child using? Is it psychedelics such as LSD, salvia, mushrooms or DMT? Are they using recreational substances like MDMA, marijuana, or cocaine? Or do they take harder drugs like heroin, meth, prescriptions, and so on?
It is important you know the type of drugs your teen is into before trying to assist them because it can help you understand their frame of mind or why they are taking these harmful substances. Psychedelics means they are trying to explore. Recreational means they are partying. And hard drugs mean they are escaping. Thus, understanding why there are taking these substances is vital.
2. Don’t be Judgmental
Although you will be disappointed when you discover that your teen is into drugs, it is essential you try not to judge him/her; doing so will only make them feel bad or push them away. Try being someone they can confide in during this process; it’s really important they see you as a friend and ally, it brings you closer to them.
Helping them becomes difficult when they feel you are judgmental, they will shut you out of their life because they feel you are not on their side. During this time of challenge, communication is key, and you will not want to destroy that. Just know they are still your child and they are only passing through a difficult phase of life.
3. Seek Professional Help
You can get help from a professional if you think you have lost control or the ability to get in touch with your teen while trying to help them. You can make things much easier for your child through therapy, it creates a neutral field, and they may be willing to talk freely with someone outside the family.
Your child may feel embarrassed or guilty, and they may want to talk to someone else besides their parent. So, if you feel you cannot connect with your teen who is having a drug problem, take appropriate time in finding a professional they can trust and talk to without fear; doing this has its benefits as it prevents your child from harming themselves in irrevocable ways.
4. Stay Positive
Finding out your teen is having issues with these substances can be quite disheartening. During this process, it is going to be critical that you stay positive and don’t let things get you or your child down. This is a great opportunity to practice some self disciplines to not let your mind get the best of you. One way to remain focused is to read positive affirmations. These powerful mantras can work wonders when you repeat them on a daily basis.