If you’ve ever been in a relationship where you weren’t happy with the way things were going, you’ve probably stopped at one point or another to wonder how you got there in the first place.
Things were going well, you were happy, and everything was going right.
But at one point, you started to feel like they weren’t the best fit for you, that they weren’t the person you thought they were, and that your relationship before this one was very similar.
If you’ve ever felt that your relationship life was starting to sound like a sequel after a sequel, maybe you need to think about the laws of attraction.
1) What are the attraction laws?
The universal laws of attraction simply say that whatever you are giving to the world, the world will give back to you.
These laws have been around since the beginning of the century, and even have been supported by scientific theory.
If you change what you are thinking and feeling, you will change the world you live in. In terms of your cyclical relationship pattern, you can start to break these patterns by recognizing what you might be doing to keep yourself stuck with the wrong sorts of partners.
2) How do I get started?
To begin, you will want to think about the way that you think.
What kind of person are you?
Do you believe that you deserve good things in your life or are the type of person that believes everything will go wrong?
These thought patterns are directly affecting the way your world and your experience. What you may want to consider is that the person that you are is generally the person that you will attract even if you don’t realize it.
For example, if you want a date to show up on time, but you’re constantly late to your own appointments, how are you showing the universe what you want in a partner?
To start the process of attracting the right’ person, you need to begin with yourself.
This means that you will want to begin to change the person you are into someone that you would enjoy being with. This can be an emotional time, one in which you learn things about yourself that you may not like but that’s okay.
You’re changing them now, so you’re already heading in the right direction.
Here are some things that you can do to start changing yourself into the person that attracts healthy and loving relationships:
Start by doing loving things for yourself A simple ritual or moment with yourself each day can be the perfect way to show how much you love yourself.
You might want to light a candle during the day and think about all of the things that you love about yourself. Or you might just simply take yourself to your favorite coffee shop in the morning. Whatever makes you feel loved, do that on a daily basis.
3) Show people how you want to be treated
If you want to attract people that are kind and loving, you must be loving and kind to others. Start by giving compliments to other people, helping people that need your help, etc.
By giving of yourself and showing the beautiful person you are, you will start to attract someone just like you.
4) Hang around positive people
Instead of meeting with the same group of single friends that always complain about their dates, try to find people that are happy with themselves and with their lives. By surrounding yourself with this positive group, you will begin to feel more positive about yourself.
5) Be grateful for yourself
Try to keep a journal about all of the good things in your life. It can just be a few things that you write down each night before you go to bed or something more complicated that you do.
When you start to be grateful to yourself, you will start to notice all of the good things about yourself and that will allow you to see the good in others too.
But will this help me find a date?
When you start feeling good about yourself and creating the kind of energy you want to attract, you begin to have a glow about YOU.
You become someone that people want to meet and get to know better.
This isn’t about picking people up, but rather feeling better about yourself and allowing yourself to talk with the people that really seem to connect with the positive person that you are.
Things will begin to develop naturally. You may find yourself meeting nicer potential partners or meeting people that introduce you to good partners. All it takes is improving yourself first.