In using the law of attraction, some of us have been misguided to think that our thoughts and feelings in one area of life inevitably affects all other areas of our lives. That is why when we experience negativity in some area, we tend to fear and resist it thinking that we need to get rid of it as soon as possible otherwise it will diminish the attracting power of other positive things in our lives. Such kind of erroneous thinking is what causes things to become worse when it truly doesn’t have to be that way at all.
It is not true that negativity in one area of our lives will inevitably affect other areas. It will only happen if we allow it to happen. Everything happens by intention which is influenced by belief, and the mind is more powerful and free in what it is able to do. We actually have a choice to control how one thought will affect every other thought. This is called the power of meta-thinking, a thought about a thought. Consciousness consist of thoughts governing thoughts and the system that keeps everything in order.
What allows the thoughts we have in one area of our lives to affect another area is the mental association we use to connect the two areas. The mental association is our thought of how one area of our lives is linked with another. It’s beneficial to us when we use mental associations that are empowering, in situations when they are empowering. But in situations when the mental association is not empowering, we should break the connection so that we can keep the negative area from influencing the positive area.
It is empowering when we attribute happiness in a relationship as a source of positive energy to attract success and wealth in the area of our business. But at times when the relationship turns negative or we experience unhappiness in it, we should cut the mental association so that negativity in that area does not reduce the positive power in other areas. The trouble happens when we keep the link there and suffer the consequences of the reverse effect, without realizing that we can link and unlink at anytime.
Being able to link and unlink at will means we allow ourselves to draw joy and positive energy when it is available from a situation, and drop our connection with it when it isn’t. Such is the power of detachment where we are free to enjoy anything when it shows up in our space without holding on to it. This keeps us from thinking that others are taking away our happiness or source of positive energy when they stop giving it to us. There’s nothing they can cause us to lose as we keep all our power to ourselves.
In order to know why our thoughts and feelings in one area of our lives will not automatically affect all other areas, we have to look into the understanding of frequencies. All our thoughts and feelings about something dwell in a certain frequency bandwidth of our consciousness. Our thoughts and feelings about something else dwell in another frequency bandwidth. Our mental association of the two forms a third frequency bandwidth that overlaps the two. We can choose to join frequencies or keep them separate.
When you experience negative thoughts in one area of your life, as long as you confine those negative thoughts to that area and keep having positive thoughts in other areas, those negative thoughts will only affect that area while other areas will remain positive. We only cause an overlap of bandwidth when we think how those negative thoughts in that area should create negative things in another area. Always realize that it doesn’t have to be that way because you have a lot more freedom than you think.
Your sense of beingness in one area will not be affected by your sense of beingness in another area. You may be unhappy or frustrated about certain relational issues but as long as you maintain your sense of being wealthy, your negative frequencies in the area of relationship will not affect your attraction in the area of wealth or money. You are a multidimensional being with unlimited and unbounded capability in governing how the frequencies of your consciousness influence one another. Do not limit yourself.
What you resist persists, and what you fear and avoid is what you resist. When you know that negativity in one area of your life does not have to affect other areas, you will not have to fear or avoid it. This enables you to face negativity in that area of your life and be present with it while still experiencing positivity in other areas of your life. It may be an issue you have to resolve and focusing on it in its own context will allow you to expand on it and work it out while keeping the other areas of your life flourishing.
Successful entrepreneurs are people who are able to maintain a calm and controlled composure in the face of pressure and chaos will keep their frequency of success vibrating strongly in the area that they are dealing with. They have mastery over the inner world and therefore they are able to be a master of circumstances. They can create the best out of every business situation because they’ve got every area of life in control. Such is the personal power for unrestricted creation of wealth and success.
Keeping your frequencies of attraction separate when things go wrong in one area of your life is what gives you the ability to continue working. Other people let troubles in their lives get them depressed and lower their level of productivity. You can never achieve maximum success and wealth through consistent peak performance if you do not have the personal power to keep you free in action regardless of what’s arising. This quality is what separates the super wealthy and successful from the average masses.
When you can keep your frequencies of attraction separate, you will also see your intentions manifesting with equal effectiveness even though it might seem that you are experiencing low vibrations from negativity in a certain area of your life. If you believe negativity in one area of life will affect another area, then that’s what you create. If you believe that it will not, then that’s what you create. This is the subtle workings of the law of attraction that gives you unlimited power to be, do and have anything you desire.