If you are wise, you should have to take time to think before you react.
If you are wise, you should have take time to listen before you criticize.
If you are wise, you should have to take time to analyze before you emphasize.
If you are wise, you should have to take to time to lend your ears before you argue.
If you are wise, you should give enough time others to speak before you clarify.
If you are wise, you should give enough time others to clarify before you justify.
If you are wise, you should learn to cultivate yourself as well as practice encourage instead of discourage.
If you are wise, you should learn as well as teach yourself to be patient in dealing with people. Remember, you are not dealing with a people of logic. You are dealing with a people of emotions!
If you are wise, you should learn and teach yourself to manage as well control of your temper.
If you are wise, you should learn to hold as well as manage your tongue not to back fight, criticize, gossip, condemn and insult other people. Remember criticizing that is a mark of an inferior person. Real wise person has no time in back fighting, criticizing, condemning, gossiping and insulting other people. They are busy in cultivating and improving themselves and helping the lowly ones.
If you are wise, do not snub people. A real wise person does not snub but greet people with a sweet smile.
If you are wise, be honest in giving praises. Do not give a flattering answer or else people will hate and mock at you!
If you are wise, remain be humble instead of being proud. Remember, God mocked the proud but He lifted up the humble.
If you are wise, do not praise yourself in front of the people. Let people praise you, not yourself!
If you are wise, you should be careful as well as watchful in your character. For your character will be your weapon against the bad tongues and the negative, toxic people.
If you are wise, be an open-minded person. Remember this; there is more hope to the fools than to close-minded individuals!
If you are wise, you should continue feeding your mind with fresh knowledge and wisdom. Remember knowledge is power. No knowledge, no power!
If you are wise, you should encourage as well as teach yourself to value other people. Remember no man is an Island!
If you are wise, cultivate yourself to have your own originality. Ive learned and discovered that one of the greatest mistakes of the young people nowadays is the lack of originality!
If you are wise, you should practice being kind to yourself as well as to other people. Always think of this; the hardest things to give is kindness, its always comes back to the giver!
Finally, if you are wise, cultivate as well as teach yourself to put God in the center and everything will come together.
Wish you many blessings to come and God Bless!
Moises Padin Reconalla
About The Author
Moises Padin Reconalla finished is a License Social Studies teacher and worked as College Guidance Counselor, College Instructor and Working Student Supervisor at North Davao Colleges, Panabo City, Philippines.
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