I am not as attractive as him

There are two very popular misconceptions that discourage people who want to make others fall in love with them. The first is believing that they have to be as attractive as the other person they want to attract and the second is thinking that the word attractive means good looking.

Let’s discuss them one by one:

1) Thinking that you are less attractive than the person you love
The first thing you need to know in order to have hope is that people fall in love with those who have similar scores as them and not those who are as beautiful as them

There is a very big difference between the two statements. A man who is attractive and brave will have a higher score than a man who is attractive and not brave

A man who is not handsome but who has high status, solid confidence and a strong presence might have a higher score than an attractive man who is not that dominant

What I am trying to say is that what determines whether the other person will fall for you or not is your total score and not your beauty. Certainly beauty is important but its only one element used in the calculation of the total score.

The calculation of the score will differ from a person to another
A girl for example might put very high weight to self confidence while another one could put a higher weight to romance

The key to making someone fall in love with you is to get the map that explains how he calculates that score. After that you just need to show the person that you have a higher total score than him and he will certainly fall for you.

2) Confusing beauty with attractiveness

Physical beauty is only one of the numerous components of attractiveness. For example men find women who smile more often more attractive than other women and women find men who drive BMWs more attractive than other men (provided that all other factors are constant)

So physical appearance is only one aspect of attractiveness and even if you aren’t that handsome you can still become very attractive by displaying other attractive traits as you will see later on in this book.

So in summary there are two major strategies you should use if you want to make someone fall in love with you.

1) If you consider yourself really attractive then you can start giving attention to the person you are interested in right away. See below how you can start giving attention the right way in order to attract someone
2) If you consider yourself normal looking then first you need to show the person you are interested in that you have a higher total score.

People who are very attractive have the advantage of having a big part of their total score written on their faces. That’s why they might attract more people than less attractive ones provided that the later group doesn’t do their homework.

So the first step you need to make someone fall in love with you is to show him that you have a higher total score than him. That’s why its strongly advised that you become friends with your target first without showing him that you want to be in a relationship with him.

This will let the person remain defenseless and will allow you to keep raising your total score in his eyes until you will reach a point where he will consider you a good catch.