Women get frustrated when they like a guy, give him the signals to approach, but he doesn’t approach. Guys do this for two reasons. Firstly, they are afraid to approach. Secondly, they are unaware of attraction signals. In this article I will teach you the later so you can scan your environment for the women already interested in you without getting rejected and wasting your time with uninterested women.
Once you discover the signals women give off when they are attracted to you, approaching women, starting conversations, and keeping conversations going becomes easy. Dating becomes easier and funner.
According to seduction expert Thundercat, author of Art of Approaching, women give what he calls “approach invitations”, which signal a willingness to talk. These invitations can even communicate when a woman is attracted. If you already know a girl, approach invitations are also useful to see if she likes you.
Look out for these signals (in no particular order) to identify the women that like you:
Signal 1: She makes eye contact with you. This is the biggest tell-tale body language signal a woman can give to a guy that she is interested in him. If a woman looks at you, keep eye contact with her. If she is still looking at you after two seconds, approach her because she wants you. Sometimes, any amount of eye contact is a strong enough signal of interest.
Signal 2: She conducts a cat scan. I came up with the “cat scan” term to describe the way a woman’s eyes move up and down, or on and off a guy. If she repeatedly scans you with her eyes, approach her. If you know the ways to attract women, you might catch yourself a nurse for later that night, then you can get all the scans you want.
Signal 3: She smooths her clothes. This is a subtle nonverbal gesture that she is interested in you. Even if it is done unconsciously, she does it to look her best for you and maximize her eye candy to draw you in. Be a sucker for sweets, she could be.
Signal 4: She initiates the conversation. Women make excuses to approach guys they like. They might comment on your height, your clothes, or where they saw you before. Whatever the reason a women approaches you, she does so because she wants to talk with you! Don’t be ignorant of it.
Signal 5: She has dilated pupils. This technique is more for the advanced person aware of body language. Nonverbal communication does not lie. A woman’s pupils are a guaranteed way to tell if she likes you. I encourage you to look at her pupils when she makes eye contact with you to communicate that you’re an alpha male and determine her level of attraction.
With these five signals, you have the skills to tell when a women is interested in you. Just don’t let it go to waste. Your next task is to learn the skills to approach women so you can move the relationship forward.