There are times in life when a little bit of confidence goes a very long way. And this is very true when it comes to taking those first few steps along the pathway to getting to know someone. As I’m sure you are aware there is no one technique which works for everyone. If only there was a set routine which you could learn and knew that that was all there was to it! For you to chat up the girls effectively that “routine” has to come from within. It has to suit you, to be a part of your own individual personality or else it won’t work.
And nobody likes rejection. A fear of rejection is what stops so many people from getting past go. They remain on the starting line, almost quivering with fear. It boils down, at the end of the day, to your expectations. If you expect it to be a scary experience, it will be, whereas if you expect that chatting up process to run smoothly, it will. One’s expectations are in the main based upon experience. That’s how your mind works; You experience something, your mind stores those events and associated feelings and whenever you enter a similar arena, your subconscious mind searches for a pattern match and invokes similar feelings and reactions.
The big question, of course, is how do you break away from this cyclical pattern of behavior? How do you change your expectations and instinctive reactions to chatting up the girls? This reaction is instinctive, it is automatic, just as much as brushing your teeth is each night and morning – you just do it. How can you change your innermost expectations and resulting behavior? Hypnosis provides the key to your inner mind, and will unlock unwanted automatic patterns of thought and behavior. You can use hypnosis downloads or a hypnosis cd at home and retrain your brain to expect to feel comfortable, and deliver your own chat up lines easily, comfortable and effectively. It really is that easy.
When you think about it, this makes very good sense. To be able to change an automatic pattern of thought or behavior you have to access the part of your mind which generates automatic reactions. And as you listen to your hypnosis download, free from embarrassment, in the comfort of your own home, you can quietly train your inner self to be comfortable and confident in every way. Prepare to be amazed how hypnosis downloads give you the confidence to chat up the girls!
Roseanna Leaton, specialist in hypnosis downloads for relationship issues.