How can i love my husband again
Research says that the attraction phase that couples usually experience in the beginning of the relationship fades after few years and that this phase is usually replaced by another phase of mutual respect and deep intimacy.
Contrary to common beliefs and also to common researches you can make yourself fall in love again with a person that you loved before even if you currently dont have emotions for him. In addition to this you can make yourself for in love with someone whom you had never had any emotions for. Read this article to know how you can do this.
Is it possible to love someone again?
Yes it is , by doing the following techniques you can restore love back to your life and love your husband again:
* Familiarity : People usually fall in love with those they are familiar with. Research has shown that familiarity creates attachment and this is why you might become attached to someone whom you see often. But you might be saying We already live together but we dont have emotions for each other! This is because only familiarly that is associated with positive emotions results in attachment. If you always fight, shout at each other or treat each other badly then the familiarity concept will surely work against you
* Excitement brings back the hormones: The great feelings we experience at the beginning of any relationship usually results from the release of certain hormones. It was found that exciting experiences can produce these same hormones and allow people to experience these same feelings again. It was even found that some of the people who go through exciting events together start liking each other. In short, do something untraditional instead of having the same boring dinner each week end and your hormones will start flowing.
* Love economics: You can program your husband or anyone else to find you more attractive. In my previous articles I explained how someones mind can be programmed by repetition especially if the programming came from different sources. For example if you convinced two of your husbands friends to tell him that you are very attractive on two different days he will start to think that you are an attractive person. See Subconscious mind programming for more information.
* Real intimacy: The key to developing real intimacy is to share everything together. If on the weekend your husband goes fishing and you go shopping then intimacy will die. You must do things together even if you both dont have the common interests. Try to share your partners interests with him and he will become more attached to you. See Healthy relationship tips for more information.
* More hormones: It was also found that looking someone into the eye for extended periods of time (more than the usual time by few seconds) results in production of the same love hormones. Some people can even be fooled into thinking that they are in love with you after few moments of staring into their eyes. While staring into the eyes of strangers can result in getting punches doing so to your husband will renew love and in addition to this it will be punch free