There had been an old saying, a confident women, is always a beautiful woman.
I dont know how much will you be agree with that, but the statement should be adjusted to :
A Confident Person, No Matter Guy Or Girl, Young Or Old, Is Always An Attractive Person.
A confident, relaxed and happy person is always attractive.
(And, relaxed and happy personality is the result of confidence)
Now, lets see what confidence leads to in your love life:
A confident person always feels good about him/herself. When you feel good about yourself, you tend to be more positive about your surroundings, it doesnt matter how you look like, or whether you are tall, short, thin or fat. You tend to smile more, you tend to talk more with others, and you will not be easily depressed.
When you smile more, you will get him/her to smile to you too. When both of you smile with each other, you will feel easier to start a conversation.
When you are able to start a conversation with others, you lose your fear of not being able to break the ice. Result? You became even more confident!
And guess what? You start to be more daring to talk to him/her! You may start to talk about jokes, (When people laugh, they become closer, you like those with great sense of humor, right?).
And then, you start to talk about things that happen in your life. (When you share your own experience, he/she will share his/her too- remember)
When this happens, both you and he/she are into each others life, and you start caring about each other. Whether or not you and he/she become together in the future or not, it really doesnt matter. If you cant become soul mate, you can always become good friends.
What REALLY matters is, you manage to attract him/her and make a good chance of getting your love.
Did you see the chain reaction as the results of your self-confidence?
Did you notice that once it gets started, it leads from one to another, and at the same time, build your confidence even stronger?
Did you realize that subconsciously, you managed to attract him/her?
DO YOU SEE THE POWER OF SELF CONFIDENCE?
But, you problem is, you dont have the self confidence with you in the first place!
This is how you feel about yourself right now:
– You are not handsome, you are not beautiful.
– You dont have good body shape, you are big in size, you are too short etc
– You dont know how to start a conversation, you are shy .
– You, you, you and so on
In Short, you feel that you dont have what it takes to build your self-confidence.
What do you need?
You need a KICK START!
You need that magic touch to get things start rolling.
You need A CORRECT MINDSET!
Before you read on, STOP all the other things that you are doing now, and READ CAREFULLY!
I am going to reveal to you the most important phrase you ever need to be successful in your love life.
It is not something new, but it will open a new door to your love life.
It is not something cheerful; it actually makes you slap yourself on your face.
And, worst of all, if you dont read carefully, you become even worse than what you are now.
YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE!
Confused? Wondering how this will kick start your self confidence?
What is the real reason behind your lack of self-confidence?
It is the fear of losing what you have now, it is the fear of coming out from a comfort zone (although it is not that comfort anyway) and face the challenge in front of you.
But, in your love life, what do you have with you that you cant afford to lose anyway?
You have nothing! (Now, slap yourself)
Are you aware that you have nothing in the first place? Do you know that if you be more confident, the only things you will lose are those things that you dont want anyway?
The only risk you are taking to be more confident is that you will lose all those sadness and loneliness that you been trying hard to get rid of?
What will you lose to start smiling with others? (Well, I am not asking you to smile all the time; it will make others think that you are insane )
What will you lose if you approach him/her to say hi, but rejected?
The answer is: NOTHING.
Why? If you dont approach him/her, what do you have?
The answer is: NOTHING.
Is there any difference?
But, what if he/she start to say hi to you?
Get what I meant?
You have nothing to lose Be confident, your happiness is just a few steps in front of you.