Your wedding day is the most exciting day of your life and should not be spoiled by nerves in any shape or form. And yet this is what so often happens. The bride is afraid of blushing or of her voice becoming high pitched as she makes her vows. The groom, on the other hand, just cannot relax until the dreaded speech is over. What a shame! Both bride and groom should be able to enjoy every single moment of this special day. The focus should be upon being blissfully in love and the planning of a future together.
The fact is that not everyone enjoys being in the spotlight, not everyone has become acclimatized to being the centre of attention. Every bride and groom, however, is going to be in just this spotlight. You know that these people who are here to share your day are friends and family, people who you know well and yet this doesn’t seem to help overcome the worries. In fact for many it simply served to make the worry more intense. You don’t want to make a fool of yourself in front of anyone at all.
For anyone who blushes, this is the most annoying and frustrating thing. It just happens. Logically you know that you are comfortable and then whoosh, the blush appears. Blushing is in fact an automatic habit, and this instinctive reaction is almost always something that began as a child and has simply remained. It is an out-dated habit, but it just happens. And if you worry about it happening it happens all the more. Of course, on your wedding day, you want everything to be perfect and so you worry more than ever about blushing.
But help is at hand. As I said, blushing is just a habit. Just as habits can be learned, they can be un-learned too, so long as you go about it in the right way. Hypnosis is a great, and essential, tool in the ability to change a habit. Your conscious and logical mind knows that there is no need to blush, and the harder you try not to blush, the more in fact you do blush. It seems that your conscious and logical efforts create the exact opposite of that which you desire.
This is because of the “mechanics” of your mind. Where there is a conflict between your will power and your imagination, your imagination wins. Think now of what happens in your mind when you tell yourself not to blush. What pictures immediately sprang into your awareness? Hypnosis is a state of relaxation, and as you learn to use hypnosis you will learn how to relax in an instant, whenever you want to or whenever you feel that you need to.
But this is not all that hypnosis does. Hypnosis is a state of mind which allows access to your subconscious mind, the place where habits are stored. Thus powerful hypnotic suggestions can be made to change old habits and replace them with new. This is why I said before that habits can be un-learned. Also, when in hypnosis, the creative part of your mind comes to the fore and you can be guided to visualize yourself as you want to be. In hypnosis, you can mentally rehearse, and therefore create a deep-rooted expectation of yourself being as you want to be, free from blushing. You can learn to visualize yourself relaxed, calm and comfortable upon your wedding day.
Your fear may not be of blushing, it may instead be of trembling or shaking, or of getting tongue tied. Whatever your fears are they can be alleviated with the help of hypnosis downloads. You can be guided to release your worries and to pave the way for a wonderful and exciting wedding day.
Roseanna Leaton, specialist in hypnosis downloads for your wedding day bliss.